We’re driving in the rain, rounding the Beltway in the nightmare that is Monday evening rush hour traffic. We’ve literally been straddling the DC border and now have broken federal capital orbit in the hopes of making our 6.30pm sound check.

The Weathered Road and Heather performing at my Java Mammas open mic in Reisterstown, MD. The old hardwood floors of the coffeehouse had a disturbingly AWESOME response to Libby’s boots and added a whole new percussive dimension to the night.

It was an interesting dynamic in the store today. A bunch of us had gigs this evening – some at the same venues! But we all had different sound checks… Keith Carr (of Celtic duo Rosemary Gano) was first, trying to escape to get to a 6.30pm sound check as well, but his was at an Irish bar in Arlington, VA – a beastly drive to say the least – I last saw him wiggling the lines of google maps trying to avoid a particular bridge in DC.

Then Kristen Jones came next – she’s performing both on cello AND steel pan tonight and has a 6pm sound check at the same Pete Seeger tribute that we’re playing at. She ducked out at about 5.45pm, hoping to evade the worst of the traffic by taking backroads all the way there. The Paul2 tied down the loose ends in the shop as I took care of an errant fiddler and a banjo player who’d secreted himself away in the banjo magazines – our 6.30 sound check was a 18 minutes away without traffic and 40 minutes with and we managed to leave Takoma Park right at 5.50pm.

Friday night Thynkvocally invited us to perform with him at the Main Street Tower in Bel Air, MD – and I said we’d only come if WE could invite the Weathered Road. Though the space was tight, it turned into a great night – complete with calamari (pictured in the foreground). It suddenly occured to me that squid, though a rarity in my younger years, have become a large part of my gig diet. How queer.

Brennan and Tori came out to watch us at the Main Street Tower in Bel Air, MD. I feel like they get to see one another perhaps for a couple hours of waking and that’s about it, so it was Lovely to see them out and about. Twrr.
It was also really nice to come home and have everyone (including Jackson) awake back at the house. SO awake that Brennan broke out a BRAND new duck for Jackson to eviscerate. That was noisy. But fun.

…And now we’re departing the Institute of Musical Traditions’ Pete Seeger tribute where I kind of wish we were able to hang around and talk to people, place our faces next to our merch – I sort of figure we’re potentially shooting ourselves in the foot by going to another show, but on the other hand I’m pretty SURE our response at Ron Goad’s showcase at Jammin Java is going to be a LOT more hearty than the polite applause received in Rockville.

The Weathered Road performing with Rowan at the Old Bowie Town Grill in Bowie, MD.

Oh, and polite it WAS. In the continued adventures of “folkies just don’t know what to make of us”, the reserved hand patting was almost painful! We got a couple of carefully sourceless whoops from the back after Heather’s tune “Ask For Me”, but for the rest it sounded like the hands were slapping together muffled by feathers and pillows.

The Weathered Road rocking out – and that’s Chris playing my Seagull! Yay!

I’m still not sure of the strategy of that – do we continue going to oddball events when invited even though our response is invariably luke-warm (at BEST)? It’s interesting to be the black sheep but it’s beginning to get kind of old, not to mention disheartening – the contrast to the screaming and whooping at some of our more energetic shows is like pleasure and pain (but without the leather). OR do we just say “no thank you” and when asked why we’re not interested just stare at the inviter like they’re insane? Oh – I DO enjoy looking at people like they’re crazy! It’s one of my favourite past-times.

Libby joined us on “In the Water” and the trio-voice of she and Heather and the ebow actually made me tear up. Eventually I got SO distracted that my pinkie slipped and hit my high E making a horrific, spell-breaking TWANG which I shall not soon forget (or Live down).
Coming back for our second set of the night at the Old Bowie Town Grill, Sharif had gotten his hands on a chocolate sundae which Rowan and I all snuck bites of behind Heather’s back.

In any case, there will never be a situation where everyone likes us anymore than I’ll EVER agree with the millions of people willing to shell out money for Miley Cyrus.

Libby of the Weathered Road dancing to our set at the Old Bowie Town Grill in Bowie, MD. I swear, getting a couple of beautiful women dancing up at the front of our show every night would make the difference in our success. Time to pay some dancers? Maaaaybe. Any volunteers?

…And Jammin Java IMMEDIATELY rubs me the wrong way by eventually getting me to pay a $2 cover to play their fucking open mic. It’s like New York City but with parking! Woo HOO!

A much better reception at Jammin Java, there was some whooping and some hollering and a lot of clapping. But I have misgivings and in general by the end of the night I’m feeling discouraged and taken advantage of.

Perhaps I’ve simply been doing this too long and to receive a modicum of a certain kind of respect is actually too much to ask – but I’ve become VERY opinionated and am still trying to figure how much of that opinionated commentary should be held back for the sake of political expediency…

It’s at about this point I should shut down my typy typy for a little bit. Oh yes indeed.

In any case, it’s a rainy night and tomorrow I’ll find out how everyone ELSE’S gigs went. I have great doubts that anyone else is having the amount of grrowl in their diet as I am right now. (add to rob’s list of disappointment – for some reason I was sort of thinking it was Sunday and that I’d be getting home just in time for Adult Swim – but no.. it’s Monday – sigh).

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