November 12th, 2014.

A new place has opened around the corner from our house in Catonsville, MD – a little coffeehouse named Tabba Tabba (the owner’s wife’s nickname). They made me a good mocha and took great pride in showing me the big stage they’ve built out back. I’m not sure if I can take on any more projects – they want me to start an open mic, but I think we’re just in time for the cold….

It’s tiiiiime for band practice! Wahoo!

In all honesty, there’s no actual sarcasm in this sentence. I LOVE my band. I Love playing with them. I like directing it and then riding it and seeing what happens next. This weekend we’ve got a huge (for us) show at The Circuit and thanks to a crazy schedule, we’ve actually got all SIX of us in one place at one time. Yeah – full ilyAIMY PLUS a drummer. Madness. I don’t think we’ve really done anything as a sextet since Junior was playing sax with us. I guess nights with Bruce joining us on fiddle would count – but this is the first time we’re going to be fielding a potential of three percussionists on stage at the same time, and I’m excited (and a little terrified) of how it’s going to play out.

And just to stay on topic, here’s my friend Justice Pressley. A marvelous poet, she’s been shopping for apartments in Northern Virginia and unfortunately has been running across an all too-real racial divide. After FINALLY finding a place that fit her budget, that was accepting of her pit bull and sounded good on the phone, Justice showed up on the owner’s door and the woman, visibly shocked at Justice’s less than lily appearance, said “well, before we even start, I’m just not sure what the neighbours will think”.
In more cheerful news, interesting things still arrive on MY doorstep : Gary Shayne playing hammered dulcimer at my Teavolve Open Mic.

Kristen and I are running late from the store, fighting our way up I95 in late Wednesday rush hour traffic. The rest of the band will already be there, WAITING, as we roll in – but I’ve still got to set up a PA and get everything plugged in. I’m visualizing it. Tonight as we break down I’ve got to make sure I’ve got a complete sketch of everything, a tech list to pass to the venue. We have any number of the damned things, but it might be a little different for Saturday night simply because we’ve never had quite this setup before.

Forgive me. I’m thinking this out. I just spotted some Facebook message that seems to have some technical kerfuffle going back and forth betwixt the band and the venue – just as you think everything’s been SO organized, suddenly someone says “but I thought… THIS…”

Sigh – it’s the ugly underbelly of this part of the music scene. Solving things in committee doesn’t work. Someone’s got to be in charge. And more and more frequently I should endeavour to BE that person in charge. Gotta crack that whip!

I think a LOT of conflict in Life comes from not understanding hierarchy. Even when everyone’s on the same page as to the objective, unless you know who breaks ties or has the final say, you have lots of friction as people rub up against one another trying to carefully massage the pieces into place.

The previous night at Teavolve my new friend Gary Shayne had asked if I knew any interesting guitar players who might be a good cross-pollinator with hammered dulcimer. In that same spirit when the Doctor (above left) said he’d run out of words but still had beats, and James Edwards (above right) said he’d run out of beats but still had words… well… I figured it was my DUTY to get these guys together! (at the Board and Brew in College Park, MD).

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