December 31st, 2021. It’s Been A Year!

A rare Kristen post! For the past few years, I’ve been doing an end-of-year photo retrospective on Facebook of the gigs I’ve played that year. It’s a fun way to look back and remind myself that I love my job! This year I thought I’d do this on the Journal to create some off-Facebook content and go into a little more depth. 

So 2021: year 2 of the pandemic. We started the year with a terrible case/death surge, as we waited for vaccines to become available. Our calendar stayed pretty empty in January, February & March, except for our Wednesday Live From the Lair streams and a couple other virtual shows. In April/May, we got vaccinated and started to breathe a bit. The weather warmed up; we could play outside and finally get together with the full band, after over a year. Wedding gigs were rolling back in too (some were reschedules from 2020).

I kind of divide 2021 into pre- and post-vaccination. I got vaccinated at the MD State Fairground in April and I felt a lot more relieved after that!

Outdoor gigs were pretty much a no-brainer that we felt good about (we’ll always bring our own mics if it’s someone else’s system). Of course, weather cancellations always loomed. We had a few things affected but mostly good luck there. We played a lot of hot, sweaty & exhausting gigs this summer. And some that were cicada-infested! Sometimes not our favorite, but better than the alternative of not playing – and despite the heat, we knew it was safer for everyone than playing indoors. We thought about trying to plan tours again, but things still seemed pretty uncertain.


In late July, after finally starting to book some indoor shows when things were looking pretty promising, we started hearing about the Delta variant and cases were going up again. We cautiously went ahead with a full-band weekend trip up to CT (our only long-distance trip this year) for 2 outdoor shows and 1 indoor, but decided to cancel some of the indoor shows we had scheduled back at home. Later in the fall we did do a few indoor shows – but even when there were masking and/or vaccination requirements, I still felt a little iffy about whether these were smart to do. There was a lot of thinking about individual risk tolerance, and coming to terms with “relative risk” – like, realizing that you have more risk of death/serious injury from the car trip to the gig than getting seriously ill or dying from a covid infection at said gig. Though for me, it’s also worrying about putting others at risk who choose to come to a show, or unknowingly infecting people if I’m asymptomatic. In November, we got our booster shots and were optimistic about being well-protected again.

Gettin’ dat booster at my local CVS. I originally got the J&J but opted for a Moderna booster.

And then, as I write this in late December, the Omicron variant is surging around the country and around the world. Things are starting to shut down again. I’ve actually lost count now of how many friends (mostly in our music community) have posted on Facebook that they’ve tested positive in the last couple of weeks. Luckily, everyone seems to have mild symptoms so far – but people are having to remain isolated over the holidays, have had to cancel gigs, and are worrying about infecting family members. We purposely did not book much of anything in Jan-Feb, and it’s looking like that was a smart idea.

So no, it hasn’t been “back to normal” in 2021. But that being said, it’s good to look back and see that actually, I worked a lot. Including our weekly livestreams, I played around 109 gigs. For comparison, in 2019 (which was sort of a light year), I had 91 – between ilyAIMY, Lulu’s Fate, Anthem & other weddings, and other freelance recording/gigging. Some more breakdown on 2021:

  • 47 Live From the Lair Livestreams (I’m pretty sure we did one every Wednesday this year, but some were Heather solo or rob/Heather)
  • 7 other livestreams (5 filmed elsewhere, 2 from home. There were some other stream-from-home ones we did as fundraisers or short things for friends but I didn’t keep track of everything.)
  • 24 outdoor shows
  • 19 weddings (and 1 funeral). Most of these were outdoor, but a few were indoors or mixed (outdoor ceremony/indoor cocktail hour).
  • 7 indoor shows
  • 4 recording/video sessions
  • I personally drove around 3,500 miles for gigs. Heather does most of the driving for ilyAIMY gigs, so there were definitely more miles traveled. For comparison, 2020 was 1,900 miles; 2019 was 5,900.
It’s always fun to see where people are watching our livestreams from. Here’s Bella (Heather’s parents’ dog) entranced.We did a shout-out to her on the stream and she responded!

…and I’m grateful for it all. Between gigs and the part-time work I do for House of Musical Traditions (which is now almost fully remote from home), I’m doing fine. Many folks I know working in the arts can’t say the same. It does still feel like a “placeholder” year – we’re not doing much that’s high-profile or seeking out new opportunities. I feel like I had time to do more creative stuff this year, but didn’t have the motivation. But “maintaining” is not a bad thing either, when you have the ability to do it. People really relished going out to live shows this year, and I was glad to bring that joy to them where we could. And I’m still so grateful to our regular crew of Live From the Lair watchers who keep us going. 

OK, here’s the big photo dump from gigs! Click on each photo for a larger view.

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